Obituary of Victor Nechipurenko

Nechipurenko, Victor Irondequoit: Life is not easy and it isn't always fair. It was the Depression that got me, not the Cancer. To my "Angel" and wife Tanya, I'm sorry to have left you and our beautiful son Andy. You are both gifts from God. I pray that God will have mercy on my soul for what I did; that He let me join my Dad and Grandma in Heaven. I wish to thank all the wonderful family, friends, neighbors and employers who made a special difference in my life even though I wasn't always the best person I could be. Thank you to all my great Doctors, Therapists and Ministers who helped carry me through my pains and struggles for so many years. I wish to thank my parents for the excellent education they provided me at McQuaid Jesuit H.S. and Syracuse University. My dad and mother often helped us financially as well. It was very difficult not feeling love from my mother during these final years. I was sad and had trouble trying to understand and accept that. But I need to forgive. I am grateful to have received true love from my wife and my son, and learned how to give them as much love as possible. Though my life was short, I had many great experiences during my time on earth. I am a Registered N.Y. State Organ Donor and hope maybe my organs can help someone live a longer and healthier life. There will be no prior calling hours, but a memorial service will be held THURSDAY 2:30PM at the First Unitarian Church. (220 S. Winton Road.) Interment Private White Haven Memorial Park. Please say a prayer for me, my family and my sister Tamara who suffers unfairly from Mental Illness. In lieu of flowers, I would ask anyone to make a modest donation to the First Unitarian Church, or to Strong Memorial Hospital Oncology Department.